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Here come the Brides!  And your guests!  As we head into June – and early Summer Fêtes,  I thought I’d share a few ideas…

Artist Ryan Haugh upcycles champagne cork Cages into whimsical chairs.  They are a sweet keepsake and a clever way to display your Escort Cards at your own Champagne affair.  His shop and his chairs are found on Etsy.

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Speaking of Spirits, you can recycle your own wine and champagne corks or upcycle them as I did here with a little pen and paint.  You’ll need to slice the cork at the top with a serrated knife for the card to slip into.  The kind folks of Brooklyn’s own Smith & Vine donated these corks, but it’ll be much more fun to stock up on corks the old-fashioned way…

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If your event dares to be a bit more wild, why not try some Animal Magnets? .   These customizable wedding favors, sold on Etsy, come in array of animals and colors.

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And why not put your tchotchkes to work?   These sweet felt chairs are Anthropologie Christmas ornaments.

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Go vintage!  These are vintage cup cake toppers, which I also found on Etsy.

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You can always add a little elegance to your own small parties and events by adding a special touch – yours!  This is my own place mat sketch, but the folks at Cake Vintage are the masters of beautiful paper placemats and serving papers.  Printed on recycled paper with soy ink, the papers give any simple meal, an elegant feel.

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Recent work for a client.  Ephemera and Sundries courtesy of Myers of Keswick.  

What would we Anglophiles do without such a shop?  They even carry Fairy Dish Soap.

However, still miss the individual instant porridge packets.

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“We need a witness to our lives. There’s a billion people on the planet… I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you’re promising to care about everything.

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The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things… all of it, all of the time,

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every day. You’re saying ‘Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it.

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Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness’.”

– Shall We Dance

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I had the pleasure of working with Gillian Simon, one of the masterminds behind the stationery line, Quotable.

Gillian started this line twenty years ago, born out of a simple frustration for finding cards that would inspire friends and loved ones.  The line now includes calendars, mugs, magnets and other sweet ephemera.  ’Each item features a quotation or proverb written in a distinctive style and script.’

IMG_0739As I do, you probably have one of those cards hanging on your refrigerator right now!

As Ms. Simon says, “They’re inspirational, everyday cards. They have universal sayings, but depending on what place you’re in mentally, the quotes mean different things to different people.”

Avid surfers, Simon and her betrothed used a Bob Marley quote for their Wedding Invitation.  {In high tide or in low tide, I’ll by your side.} It is the first Wedding Invitation of its Quotable kind!  So I was honored to add my white cursive style to her simple and classic quotable style.

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YesVirginia

“…You may tear apart the baby’s rattle and see what makes the noise inside, but there is a veil covering the unseen world which not the strongest man, nor even the united strength of all the strongest men that ever lived, could tear apart.  Only faith, fancy, poetry, love, romance, can push aside that curtain and view and picture the supernal beauty and glory beyond…”

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Winter Wedding Season has arrived!  Busy with Christmas Card addressing, Announcements, Save the Dates, Invitations and Place cards.    Around here it’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas with Event Blossom’s seed paper snowflake place cards – embedded with a handful of annual and perennial wildflower seeds for your guests to plant.  It will certainly remind your guests of your special day, long after Winter has gone.

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You’re not tipsy – not yet anyway.

To get in the ‘spirit’ of things, my client chose my ‘bias style’ for her upcoming New Year’s Eve Nuptials.

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Officially listed in the 2013 Winter Edition of the New York Magazine Weddings Issue.

On stands now!

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One of my recent clients chose a pretty lavender ink and a condensed version of my signature style.  Shot at the über cool Lavender Lake Lounge.  Perfect spot  for a pre or post wedding planning cocktail.    {I recommend the St. Basil.}

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My client chose blue for her invitations, kind of apropos to feel the blues as I write them as Summer begins to wane and the Olympics are no longer my background music!    

As you can see she chose the classic outer and inner envelope style.  You can find out more about how to address these two envelopes from both Martha Stewart  and Crane & Company.  As Crane & Co.’s blog explains, long ago, Wedding Invites were delivered by the Bride’s footmen to guests homes.  The guests’ servant removed the pristine inner envelope bearing only the guest name from the outer envelope. 

“Though footmen have since been replaced by postmen, the inside envelope is still de rigueur. It gives something as important as your wedding invitation a certain je ne sais quoi.”

Having addressed many envelopes, both formal and informal, I often tell my clients, that this is the first opportunity to present your guests with the ‘style’ of your Wedding, whether formal or casual.  If your Wedding is informal, the inner envelope is an opportunity to write your guest’s nickname or the name you’ve come to know and love them as.

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A recent frugalista client used the “Love In Bloom” collection from  VistaPrint for her invites and envelopes.  The envelopes and invite were not only inexpensive, but surprisingly vintage looking!  Photographed at the incredible Opalia Flowers in Brooklyn.

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What can be better on a Summer Day than a nice cold library?  Well, for Bibliophiles, getting married in one!

My clients from Boston will be marrying in the Boston Public Library ♥swoon♥.  Their escort cards will be vintage check/out return cards.

Support your local library – get hitched in one!

 

 

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My Summer is certainly feeling Olympic!  My first International client, Áine hails from Northwestern Ireland, from the city of Sligo.  Her invitation was done by the über romantic Rifle Paper Company.  Stay tuned for more posts from the Summer of Love.


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My calligraphy got to Italy before I did!

My client Ravenel, used Olive Branches with my work on her place cards for her Wedding in La Selva, Tuscany.   Olive branches are one of the traditional symbols of an Italian Wedding.  It’s often given from the Bride to her Mother in Law.  Brides are also known to wear olive branches in their hair, as a sign of fertility, peace and perhaps like an Olympic Athlete – victory!   Some strange and some lovely Italian traditions are listed here.

The photography is by the incomparable Italian artist, Leila Scarfiotti.

More of this amazing wedding on Leila’s blog under the “The Sacred Veil.”

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Spring Wedding Season has kept me busy – suitcases full of invitations kind of busy!

If you are lucky enough to receive and invitation please RSVP!  Brides and Grooms are not only waiting for your reply, but Caterers, Florists, and friendly Calligraphers await your “répondez, s’il vous plaît” to help complete those Brides and Grooms’ special day.

At one point our civilized society didn’t require response cards-it was understood that once someone received a written invitation, it was customary to respond on their own stationery…

The roots of many of our Western etiquette practices seemed to have emanated in the Versailles Court of King Louis XIV.  Etiquette or as the French called them – ‘tickets’ were written on the back of invitations as the ‘rules’ for parties at the Court.

Newspaper columnist “Miss Manners” thinks that “RSVP” came about as a polite way of reminding people of something that they should already know:  If you receive an invitation, you should reply.  She reminds her Gentle Readers of their possible folly in not doing so in this Washington Post column.

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I love writing International addresses, it gives me a chance to ‘travel’ to places I have not been (yet.)  They all sound so exotic, without moorings or maps.  My favorite addresses, as I have mentioned before on my blog, are those from Ireland.  They are so mysterious, noting Castles and Counties, often without postal codes or street addresses.  It’s always a mystery to me how they find their addressee and yet they do!  In a blog post last year, I  attributed this magic to the Celtic philosophy of Anam Cara – a spiritual notion of  finding your ‘Soul Friend.”  Little did I know, but soon found out, that the photos I featured in that blog post belonged to a client whose ancestry was connected to  John O’Donohue, poet, philosopher and the author of Anam Cara.  Now THAT is the luck of the Irish.  Recently, I worked with two clients of Irish descent, one is even having her Wedding IN Ireland, complete with a Jameson Whisky tour and tasting.  Both clients invites were…numerous.  And when I stood aghast at one client’s mention of how many brothers and sisters, grandchildren and great-grandchildren were in her family, she simply shrugged and offered an explanation of ‘her people’:  ”This is what we do.”

May we all have numerous International addresses to send to!

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…Many clients ask me about the folks in my logo photo.  It is in fact my parents, Donna and Daniel who have been married for over forty-five years.  In fact, there are three couples in this photo who took their vows very seriously.  Some of their stories are below.  I love to share their stories with my clients who are so often confronted with tales of divorce.  Perhaps we are all looking for inspiration in the wrong places.  I recently attended a Mass that celebrated World Marriage Day which acknowledges marriage as a sacrament.  At the Mass, married couples stood up and received a blessing, and were reminded that they serve as an example for single people.   These folks serve as my example of extraordinary love and devotion.  Maybe they will inspire you too.

Lucy and Dominick.  April 23rd, 1938.  My Grandmother survived her husband, who actually lived next door to him.  At the time, my Grandfather Dominick, was dating another woman, but apparently he could not get Lucy out of his head.  He often found himself staring at her legs while she sun bathed in the backyard.  ”You want these legs?” Lucy asked Dominick, “You’re gonna’ to have to marry them.”  And he did.  Their marriage survived the death of one of their own children.  Their union was loud, but they shared a fierce dependency – especially at Bingo.

Alva and John.  February 20th, 1946.  Alva survived her husband John who passed away in 2007.  They met in New York City at the White Star Tavern shortly after WWII.  My grandfather, who had served in Merrill’s Marauders, briefly chatted with Alva who at the time, was divorced with three children.  When she and her girlfriend excused themselves to the Ladies’ Room, John told Alva, “I hope everything comes out okay.”  It did.  He went on to take care of Alva, her three children and together, they had four more children together.  They have fourteen grandchildren and 13 great-grandchildren (and counting…)

Donna and Daniel.  February 20th, 1966. My parents met at the RKO Keith’s Movie House, where they both worked as Ushers.  They claim they married on the coldest day of the year.  But the legendary story that has been told and retold, was the one that recounted the time after one of their many break ups.  After a time apart, my father called Donna’s house to invite her to a New Year Eve’s Party.  Unbeknownst to him, he called on the day of her engagement to another man.  ”I’m sorry Danny,” my mother told my father, “you’re just too late.”  But you are in fact, never too late.  (A family motto.)  Soon after, my mother broke her engagement off to the man who was never meant to be my father and reconnected with the man who is my father.

Marriage carries on, even past death.   Unfortunately, ’til death do us part,’ is perhaps understood today as ’til death of this particular union.’   But marriage lasts even past our mortal lives.  It is a commitment that actually can be achieved, done in style and done well.  Too often we are told about Hollywood marriages ending quickly and suddenly.   But marriages do last, in other places, all the time, in fact, it happens every day…

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Work is always best during Snowy Football Weekends.

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{The best recipes are always handwritten}

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Happy Halloween to all the Monsters and their Ghouls.

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“The best calligraphy comes gracefully, without thought.  It is like dancing, governed by rhythm and intervals” – Milton Glaser

tuccicursive is happily hunkered down with work for the Fall/Winter Wedding Season!

Exciting News & Sample Work Coming Soon!

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Many thanks and luck to all my Fashion Forward clients!  You make myself and NYC ‘work!’

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It’s always fascinating to me how the residents of Ireland get their mail with so few numbers!

The addresses are mysterious and exotic and some of my favorite to address.

Apparently, both Ireland and Panama do not have national postal code systems.

Check out ‘Frank’s Compulsive Guide to Postal Addressing‘ for information on how to address envelopes for your International Guests.

Personally, I think Anam Cara is responsible for getting letters to their destination–the Celtic spiritual tradition that acknowledges the presence of ‘soul friends.’  When you are blessed with Anam Cara, you have arrived at that very special destination–Home.

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…with Monique Llluillier fine papers.

Many  top American fashion designers like Vera Wang and Kate Spade
are creating this wedding stationery trend.

So.  ”What are YOU wearing?”

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The ‘Morning Drive.’

Attempting to make the world a prettier place–one envelope at a time….

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Congratulations to William and Kate.  

I suppose our invitations got lost in the Royal Mail…

And Congratulations to all my recent clients who share their Wedding Day with the Prince and Princess as well those whose special days are soon to come!

I’ve seen many variations of place cards and escort cards, and many creative ways in displaying them.  I believe that when it is ‘your’ day, you should bring yourself, and your personality through every aspect of your Wedding, including through the place and escort cards.

However, there is traditional etiquette that is worth noting.  I turned to The Wedding Planner Whisperer herself, Lauren Sozmen of Loli Events, for some advice on dealing with this special ‘deck’ of cards.

Lauren reminds us that ‘the escort card table is one of the first things that your guests will see when entering the reception. It is worth spending time thinking about it; use your colors, be creative and set the tone for the party to come!!’

One of my clients, Judy McDermott O’Keefe, did just that by placing wooden gift tags on paper mache trees from the West Elm David Stark Holiday Collection. Tables were not mere numbers but cities, and guests had a great time ‘finding their city.’

Stephanie (nee) Driscoll combined her favors and escort cards. Stephanie used Green Post tags (composed of recycled paper with wildflower seeds that when planted, grow) and put them on wine bottles to demarcate table numbers as well as guest names.  

Although Gabrielle {nee} Obermeier used traditional tent cards, she too used the opportunity to seat guests at ‘meaningful locations’ rather than typical table numbers…

Whatever creativity you do use, Sozmen says that ‘etiquette for the escort cards should follow the formality of your event. If guests were addressed as Mr. and Mrs. John Smith on the invitation then the escort card should be in the same format. A more casual invite and escort card would be Kate and John Smith.’

If someone is bringing a guest you should do two separate cards.   Sozmen feels that is never ‘right’ to ‘write’ “John and Guest.”

If a husband and wife have a different name then it is best to put the woman’s name first.’

And in regard to Placecards, Sozmen goes onto to note that ’place cards are only necessary if you feel strongly about where your guests sit at their table or if you are having a small intimate and formal event of 50 guests or less.’

And unless yours is a kind of casual cocktail party, your Wedding MUST have escort cards!    It makes the mood more of Royal Affair rather than that of a High School Cafeteria.

For more etiquette rules and guidelines check out this page from Crane & Co.’s.

Hope you’re sitting next to someone special!

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The Spring Wedding Season has Sprung–and so brings on the Wedding Registries. Another toaster?  Crockpot?Ladle?  No!    Why not consider giving an original keepsake gift to that special couple?

Meet the team behind Twig. The creators behind “Moss Terrariums and Other Small Worlds.” These exquisite custom Terrariums can commemorate that special couple’s first meeting or their legendary favorite trip or even their Wedding Day.

The team specializes in “easily contained, easily maintained life.”

Lifelong friends and crafters, Michelle Inciarrano and Katy Maslow have been creating “moss terrariums and other small worlds” for a little over a year.  They have received press from the New York Times, Country Living and Rachel Ray’s Everyday Magazine.

Katy and Michelle use over 15 different kinds of moss and capture ‘moments’ in antique, vintage, apothecary science glass and jars, in kitchenware, and any odd glass objects they find in their travels.  You can view many of their creations here.

These living sculptures require a small amount of upkeep, and as time goes on, these terrariums will not only ‘take care of themselves’ but will take that special moment and make it literally and figuratively live forever….

Isn’t this the gift that you’d rather ‘give?’

Terrariums can be purchased locally.  Twig also supplies Gift Certificates and DIY Kits.

 

 

 

 

For Custom Orders, please email Michelle and Katy at info@twigterrariums.com.

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My client, Vanessa, used vintage stamps from Champion Stamp (NYC’s premier stamp store) to complete my handwritten invitations.  She even went a step further by matching stamps with her guests’ hometowns!

How will you make your invitations mean more?

 

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Meet the woman behind the films that make your weddings appear timeless and cinematic.

Meet Jessica Lyons of Worker Bee Designs…

Worker Bee Designs Highlight Reel from Jessica Lysons on Vimeo.

Jessica uses the beauty of Super High 8 Film to make 15 minute heirloom keepsakes of your wedding, union or event.

In an article by Lindsey Eden Turner in Austin’s “Rare” Magazine,  Super 8, developed in 1965, is noted by Phil Vigeant, Owner of Pro88mm in LA, as not only being archival, classic, and lasting forever, but containing a ‘human element.’   “It lends a quality of immediacy that makes the person behind the camera feel connected with the actions in front of it.”

As Jessica notes, her mini epics are like an ‘espresso’, having all of the good stuff and none of the filler.  The look is timeless and the technology is archival.

In other words, it’s the best of both worlds.

But an even more lovelier creation are Jessica’s Flip Books.


As a book, film, and ephemera junkie, this sold me on Jessica’s point of view as an artist.  These books encompass what a great wedding day should be, one that is sweet and clever–A memory you can literally put in your pocket.

See one in Action by Clicking Here!

Jessica Lyons grew up in Spokane and now lives in Brooklyn.  She studied Architecture at Yale and was Clerk of the Works for a general contractor in Seattle. She also happens to be the Vice President of an investment banking firm.

Strange but true.

“I love giving handmade gifts.”  Jessica says.  “ I love objects that display the mastery and passion of the maker.  I started Worker Bee Designs to do what I love on a bigger scale.”

The unique kind of Valentine we’d all like to receive.

Visit Worker Bee Designs for more information on rates and demos.

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For each client that I work with, there is one popular guest I can always count on writing an envelope for.  He and his ‘plus one’ have been getting invited to weddings since his Inauguration.

Apparently if you send President Barack and First Lady Michelle Obama an invitation to your wedding, you will receive a personal response from the Prez and the First Lady.  It will probably be a regretful R.s.v.p, but it makes for a sweet keepsake for your wedding!  There’s always a chance?  The audacity of hope!!

You must allow at least six weeks for a response.  Be sure to include your old and/or new address.

The Honorable Barack Obama and Mrs. Obama

The White House

Greetings Office Room 39

1600 Pennsylvania Avenue

Washington, DC 20500

For all you British Citizens {non-British Citizens will not receive a response}  You may also invite the Queen!

And if you would like to receive a Papal Blessing from the Pope of the Catholic Church, write to:

Pope Benedict XVI
Prefettura della Casa Pontifica
00120 Citta del Vaticano, Italia

For more information about inviting V.I.P.’s to your wedding, check out Bliss Weddings.

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